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	<title>Comments on: My Symbiont Part 3 of 3</title>
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		<title>By: wanda</title>
		<link>http://www.starling-fitness.com/archives/2009/05/01/my-symbiont-part-3-of-3/#comment-213086</link>
		<dc:creator>wanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 19:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;I need a old book can anyone tell me how to get one,
i like to do the point sysytem day 2 is my favorite.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[I need a old book can anyone tell me how to get one,
i like to do the point sysytem day 2 is my favorite.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: wanda</title>
		<link>http://www.starling-fitness.com/archives/2009/05/01/my-symbiont-part-3-of-3/#comment-213085</link>
		<dc:creator>wanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2010 19:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;I like the point system also,but i needa book can anyone tell me where i can get a book. i like day2 in the book.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[I like the point system also,but i needa book can anyone tell me where i can get a book. i like day2 in the book.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Nicky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 04:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Laura!  Your 2006 video made me sad - I felt so bad for you.  I hope every day today is not as much of a struggle.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I noticed that you actually use food as a reward for when you exercise...do you think that perhaps a non-food reward would help decrease your obsessional thoughts about food more effectively?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m also very concerned about your statement, &quot;If I have a perfect day, I spend some time with a good friend either on the phone or in person.&quot;  Two issues - first, the focus on having a &quot;perfect day&quot;.  You should feel good even if you have a &quot;pretty good day.&quot;  Perfectionism is the route to self-hatred.  Second issue - you need to reward yourself with positive social interaction WHETHER OR NOT you had a good or &quot;perfect&quot; day.  Positive social interaction may be even MORE important after a &quot;horrible&quot; day - it can help you take better care of yourself the next day!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Good luck - and be good to yourself!&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi Laura!  Your 2006 video made me sad &#8211; I felt so bad for you.  I hope every day today is not as much of a struggle.  

I noticed that you actually use food as a reward for when you exercise&#8230;do you think that perhaps a non-food reward would help decrease your obsessional thoughts about food more effectively?

I&#8217;m also very concerned about your statement, &#8220;If I have a perfect day, I spend some time with a good friend either on the phone or in person.&#8221;  Two issues &#8211; first, the focus on having a &#8220;perfect day&#8221;.  You should feel good even if you have a &#8220;pretty good day.&#8221;  Perfectionism is the route to self-hatred.  Second issue &#8211; you need to reward yourself with positive social interaction WHETHER OR NOT you had a good or &#8220;perfect&#8221; day.  Positive social interaction may be even MORE important after a &#8220;horrible&#8221; day &#8211; it can help you take better care of yourself the next day!

Good luck &#8211; and be good to yourself!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Laura Moncur</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura Moncur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 May 2009 17:20:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Renee,&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Great job! 56 pounds is a phenomenal achievement! Keep up the good work!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Kristin,&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;I watched your video for how to Defeat the Hydra! Excellent!&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[Renee,

Great job! 56 pounds is a phenomenal achievement! Keep up the good work!

Kristin,

I watched your video for how to Defeat the Hydra! Excellent!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Kristin Norris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristin Norris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 05:22:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;you inspired me: http://geogiahealth.com/uncategorized/how-to-defeat-the-hydra/&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[you inspired me: <a href="http://geogiahealth.com/uncategorized/how-to-defeat-the-hydra/">http://geogiahealth.com/uncategorized/how-to-defeat-the-hydra/</a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: angela</title>
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		<dc:creator>angela</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 21:54:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;I like the idea of playing the DS.  That would be a good reward for me.  Also my WII.  I really need to get back on track, it&#039;s amazing how fast this beast can fall backwards.&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[I like the idea of playing the DS.  That would be a good reward for me.  Also my WII.  I really need to get back on track, it&#8217;s amazing how fast this beast can fall backwards.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: Renee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Renee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2009 16:32:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;I appreciate this 3 parter Laura!  I just want you to know that I read your posts just about everyday while I&#039;m at work during my lunch break.  For the past year after finding this site, your posts have been one of my motivators in coming to grips with &quot;actually&quot; changing my &quot;eating&quot; lifestyle cultupuling me down 56 lbs over the last year now!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Thank you for your courage to write about things that so many of us confront!&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[I appreciate this 3 parter Laura!  I just want you to know that I read your posts just about everyday while I&#8217;m at work during my lunch break.  For the past year after finding this site, your posts have been one of my motivators in coming to grips with &#8220;actually&#8221; changing my &#8220;eating&#8221; lifestyle cultupuling me down 56 lbs over the last year now!

Thank you for your courage to write about things that so many of us confront!]]></content:encoded>
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